We all have insecurities about ourselves, most of us spend time wishing we were someone else. We are constantly bombarded and fed things from the media of how we are not good enough. We are not good enough without this makeup, purse, size, lifestyle, etc. Even I have moments of the "what if's" at times. Advertising is meant to do this, it is meant to put ideas into your head to make you think that until you have that "thing" you won't be happy.
As we go through our lives we often want to quit when the going gets tough. I mean it's easier to blame than it is to forgive, it's easier to play victim than it is to take accountability. Speaking your truth is hard, being yourself is hard, living in the past is hard. But they don't have to be. We have the power within us to find ways to push past the muck and when we don't, the universe gives us exactly what we need. That's exactly what happened to me the past few days.
I have been taking a class to develop my healing and enhancing my coaching practice. It has accelerated things about me so fast that I barely have enough time to buckle my seat belt. When we go through our healing process things from our past surface, we face our darkest recesses of our mind and soul. It can be super scary. I've dealt with my depression, anxiety, pain, and fears again. What I have found through this is the amazing fact that, I can get through it. I have to keep fighting, I have to keep going. That's when it hit me, I have been strong all along even when I thought I wasn't. I'm here to tell you that you can too.
We are amazing creatures, born into pure love but spend years trying to find it again. We get battered down by the burdens of daily life and other peoples needs. Then one day we wake up from the fog and decided it is time to take our life back into our hands. Look back on your past and take note of all the amazing things you have accomplished, all the pain you worked through, the mistakes you learned from, show yourself how far you have come. Every choice, every decision, every opportunity you have taken has led you up to here. It's time to honor yourself, it's time to tell yourself good job. Failures lead to success, fears can lead to adventures and sadness can lead to happiness. Remember life is a process of learning and growing. We aren't supposed to be perfect or know exactly how to do everything right. You can do it!
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"Magic only comes to those who believe in it."
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