You will always be too much of something for someone: too big, too loud, too soft, too edgy. If you round out your edges, you lose your edge. — Danielle LaPorte
You are an unique amazing individual and were meant to do great things in this life. Don't let others define who you are!. A while ago I was running into a common theme of being "too much" for people. I was too loud, too youthful, too big or too wild. It wasn't until I began to surround myself with people that truly cared about me that I was really able to let my true self out and realize that those who criticized my true self actually were insecure with their own personalities.
We have all been there but now is the time to stop! Pause for a moment a remember who you are. Sounds like something from the Lion King..."Remeber who you are Simba." The truth is on some level it is extremely hard to be yourself, jobs, teachers, and even parents can set expectations upon you and you may or may not be aware. Expectations are pointless in my opinion. I feel as if they are only there to set us up for disappointment. So no judgements, no guilt, no expectations, just be yourself.
You are an amazing individual with tons of potential go out and show the world!
I have always been one of those people that promotes love, kindness, and peace. Call me an urban hippie but the world needs more of those things. The world needs more love. As a society we have become such an entitled, greedy, and selfish place that it's getting harder and harder not to notice. We tear done trees, mountains, pollute rivers and oceans. We are losing the beautiful creatures that once flourished these lands. We care more about the sales rather then the employee who is making them. We have more bosses and less leaders. The hardest thing for me to see is the loss of connection we have with each other.
We as women are told to compete with each other instead of empowering one another. Even our men are told that they aren't aloud to care or show their feelings. We are all told to grow up, be more adult, have a great career, but then to turn around and be told to be ourselves. It is getting harder and harder to find out who we are with all the pressure around us.
These past few weeks I took a break to really focus on whats going on around me. I can't lie some of this break was caused because of some things going on in my life. I have been going through a big transition in my life and I'm sure as we speak I am still going through it. Maybe this is my plea to keep blogging, not just for others but for myself as well. I was told something the other day and I have been working with it all week, "All of this is for you, for you to learn and for you to make an opportunity." So I shall take these past few weeks and move forward in my blogging, my coaching and my life! :-)
"Magic only comes to those who believe in it."
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