Often we find ourselves in a state of loneliness. I hear often the words and statements of fear of being alone. "I'm getting older and my time for kids is running out", "If I don't find a man/woman soon I'm never going to get married", "They broke my heart, I don't want to go through that again...I'll just be alone forever". We all go through this. It is the last bit of desperation that our mind puts us through. You get the feeling of not being good enough to have a partner of stability (don't mean pay for all your bills) but a person that respects and loves you for who you are. Because you respect and love yourself.
When is the last time you took yourself out? When is the last time you did something because you wanted to, without hesitation or guilt? We spend so much time worrying about impressing others that we too often forget about ourselves. What most of us fail to realize is that the first step to loving others is to love ourselves first.
So here's a great exercise you can do to help kick fear out and start loving yourself and doing things that you've always wanted to do.
By writing lists we are able to evaluate ourselves and priorities and really see the things that are important to us. Action plans help us stay on track and help us reach our goals. You are wonderful and amazing. Never forget that.